Negative Energy Cords – Know The 6 Signs of Being Corded

May 7, 2019 By Amy Pearson 5 Comments

In every relationship, people are exchanging energy. This energy can become a negative energy cord connecting you energetically with the person in that relationship. Think of a cord like an energetic umbilical cord between two people who are transferring emotional energy and life energy. When the energy (and therefore the cord) is positive, there exists an energetic bond with the other person that is healthy.

By contrast, a negative energy cord contains the energy of the negative aspects of the relationship. This can be unresolved negative emotions and issues associated with events in the relationship.

We create cords to connect with one another. We can cord with others and others can cord with us. Cords come in various strengths as shown in the picture. Large cords are typically formed with close loved ones like our parents, children or partner. Smaller cords can be formed with co-workers or those who help us like our banker, hair dresser or spiritual adviser. To have a cord, there exists an energy of mutual interest in the relationship.

There are signs that you are corded with another person, and once you recognize the signs, disconnecting the cord will resolve many of the signs and symptoms of being corded. Negative energy cords can create all kinds of problems, both physical and emotional, and can often cause you to take on the emotional problems of others. They can also leave you feeling stuck and unable to move on when you want to.

Here’s a Video Explaining the Signs of Being Corded, or keep reading for the full article.

6 Signs that you are corded:

You can’t stop thinking about the person

I personally had to remove a cord with a friend whom I decided was not really a friend. In the end, she wasn’t a nice person and I had to change the relationship. Despite needing to be detached from her, for several months I often thought of her. I tried not to, but thoughts would just pop in my head.

You dream about the person or a meaningful place you shared with that person

Once I woke up at night dreaming about a vacation we went on – girls weekend. In my dream, I secretly visited the vacation location just to see if she was there and what was going on. Needless to say, I did not want to continue dreaming about this person.

You have conversations with the person

I would have imaginary conversations with this x-friend all of the time. On one level, I wanted nothing to do with her, but on another I really wanted to tell her what I thought of her – and I did. . . in my mind . . .all of the time!

You can’t forgive and let go

Boy did I not only want her to know what I thought of her, I realized that I had not forgiven her for all the wrongs I felt she had done to me. I tried to forgive, but I had to keep forgiving over and over and over – I just wasn’t getting the job done. Cords will do that. They do prevent you from truly forgiving the other person and yourself as well.

They find a way back into your life

Imagine my astonishment when my husband went on a mini vacation to find ourselves at the same resort with my x-husband. Ugh! When a cord is present, the person you are corded to will find a way back into your life.

You feel drained

Having a negative energy cord is draining. That’s because they interrupt the positive energy in your auric field. With an opening in your auric field from a negative energy cord, this allows energy to be lost, or worse – taken by the person.

Removing Negative Energy Cords

Using Body Code methods, we remove cords and do not cut them. We send them outside your auric field. First, we find out more about the cord by asking questions like whether or not the cord is healthy. We can ask where you are corded (most likely in a chakra area), whether the cord is with a male or a female, when the cord was established and who established it.

Once a cord is removed, I like to use an energy of love and white light to heal the place where you were corded.

If you want to learn more about your own personal cords of attachment and how they are affecting you, please contact me or leave a comment below and let me know if you have ever been corded!

The Heart Wall Explained

March 28, 2019 By Amy Pearson Leave a Comment

The Power of the Heart

I watched a documentary a couple of years ago called “The Power of the Heart.” It’s about a scientific study looking at the body’s response to different pictures. The pictures shown to the participants were of different subject matter such as war or dangerous animals. Others were of nice subject matter like fuzzy teddy bears and flowers.

What was being studied was the body’s response to the pictures. The researchers found that 100% of the time, the area of the body that reacted first was the heart. From the heart, the brain registered a response next, and then the body. As the body responded, it was reflected by facial response, auditory noises and goosebumps or hair that raises on your arm.

To me, this study helps to explain the presence of the Heart Wall. This study proved that the heart sends messages to the cells of our body, and the brain actually responds to the messages the heart is telling it. The conclusion was that the heart can actually hold and remember things that have happened to us, whether they’re good or bad.

Why this is important?

Because in many ancient cultures, the heart is considered to be the seat of our soul or the core of our being. It’s definitely the source of love for one another and the source for all our creativity. So it’s my belief that if your heart isn’t whole, then the cost to you is that you could lose access to your spirit and to your joy.

What is a Heart Wall?

Let’s talk about this in terms of the Heart Wall and what it is. As you go through life, you experience happy events and you experience those that are the exact opposite. If the heart can remember both of those experiences, then the Heart Wall is made up of those energies from those experiences. When I work on the Heart Wall, I find and remove the negative energy of the bad experiences.

This is very easy to do. I’m trained to do it, and it’s super easy. It doesn’t hurt, and actually leaves you feeling really good – most clients report feeling ‘lighter.’

Types of Heart Walls:

Life Heart Wall

This is the primary place you hold your heart memories. Dr. Bradley Nelson, developer of Emotion Code and Body Code, teaches that experiences help form an energy wall. We love the positive energy in the energy wall! However, the energy wall can also hold those negative experiences. As we encounter a life experience that is more negative in nature, we can ‘grab’ those energies as if saying, “Wow, that experience was kind of painful, and I’m going to take that energy and guard my heart. Next time that happens, it’s not going to hurt so much.” This is the construction of your Heart Wall.

Relationship Heart Wall

Sometimes people hold their heart memories in a separate place I call a Relationship Heart Wall. These negative energies can exist between husbands and wives, parents and children, siblings, etc. The first Relationship Heart Wall I found was between a mother and her teen aged daughter. The mom could feel the negative energy between she and her daughter and wanted it cleared. We started right at the Heart Wall. Once the negative Heart Wall energy is cleared, those relationships can transform for the better because the transformation doesn’t have to occur between and around negative energies.

Traumatic Event Heart Wall

I find there are also heart energies around events in our life like the loss of a loved one. Once the heart imprint of that grief is addressed and cleared, the grieving process can really be transformed. I remember a young client who lost her husband in a tragic accident. After about a year, she came to me for help in the grieving process. She was ready to begin to move forward. As I asked how I could lift her emotionally, spiritually, and physically, we found a Heart Wall. The entire heart wall was built around her loss. Removing the Heart Wall energies did allow her to move forward in life.

In Conclusion

There may have been a time or two when you went through something in your life that left emotional baggage. This baggage just may be the energy that is holding you back and keeping you from experiencing all of the joy and love you are meant to feel!

The good news is, you don’t have to continue your life holding onto these negative heart imprints! They are easy to remove and can help you move forward in many areas of your life!

I would love to hear from you – feel free to leave comments for me below!

Dana Engdahl, Energy Healing Practitioner (509) 252-0845

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6 Questions To Ask If Someone Is in Crisis

October 2, 2018 By Amy Pearson Leave a Comment

In honor of Suicide Awareness Week

World Suicide Prevention Day was Monday September 10th. I am writing this blog because I have been touched by suicide. I lost a best friend and it makes me sad and bewildered to this day. I just went to my 40th high school reunion and she was remembered in a video honoring those we had lost. I wish she had been sitting beside me enjoying the evening. I had no idea the depth of her emotional pain.

Two other seemingly “on top of the world” celebrities also committed suicide recently. The suicides of both Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain have spawned a much needed discussion around anxiety, depression and what to do if you suspect someone is suicidal or in crisis.

Here are 6 questions to ask someone you suspect may be contemplating suicide:

Do you have a plan? This denotes a difference between contemplation and intention. If they have a plan, assume they are intentional.
Where do you see yourself next year? This will let you know if they have hope for the future, and maybe give you a glimpse into where they place that hope.
Has anyone in your family completed suicide? This establishes a pre-disposition for completing suicide.
Would you still want to die if circumstances changed? This will help determine if they are reacting to current circumstances or if something bio-chemical is happening like in Tyler’s case.
Do you want to go to the hospital? This helps to determine a course of action for you take with them.
How can I help you right now? This lets them know you are there for them and also determines a course of action.

I have learned that it’s important to connect, stay connected, and move towards anyone in crisis. The above questions should be asked directly and matter-of-factly, and without judgment. Ask with care, concern and love for the person you are trying to help. And, above all, listen and act if you need to!

If you think anyone is a danger to themselves and won’t go to the hospital, or allow you to help, call 911. Emergency response professionals are trained to determine the best course of action. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain (a life) by taking this action.

Someone in my life recently shared their own thoughts of suicide with me. I took action and moved towards this person asking the above questions to determine the depth of despair and measurable intent. In the end, we did not go to the hospital. I received a note from this person who thanked me and in part, wrote: “Thank you for asking such perfectly specific questions, and for not panicking when I shared honestly . . . I felt like you handed me back my strength.”

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